How to Talk so Kids will Listen

Available in-person in Pietermaritzburg or online via ZOOM

"How to Talk So Kids Will Listen" is a renowned parenting approach developed by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. The methodology focuses on fostering effective communication between parents and children, aiming to build stronger connections and promote positive behaviour. Parenting workshops based on this approach provide valuable insights and practical strategies for parents to enhance their communication skills and create a more harmonious family environment. 

The workshops typically cover various aspects of the "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen" approach, offering parents a comprehensive toolkit to navigate the challenges of parenting. The workshops cover: 

Active Listening: Parents learn the art of active listening, a crucial skill in understanding a child's perspective. By acknowledging and validating a child's feelings, parents can create a supportive atmosphere where open communication is encouraged.

Expressing Empathy: The workshops emphasise the importance of expressing empathy towards a child's emotions. This involves acknowledging a child's feelings without judgment, fostering a sense of security and trust.

Problem-Solving Techniques: Practical problem-solving techniques are taught to help parents and children collaborate on finding solutions. This approach encourages children to think critically and make positive choices while maintaining a respectful parent-child relationship.

Using Positive Language: The workshops highlight the impact of language on parent-child interactions. Parents are guided on the use of positive and constructive language to promote cooperation, reduce conflicts, and nurture a positive atmosphere at home.

Setting Boundaries and Limits: Effective communication also involves setting clear and reasonable boundaries. Workshops provide guidance on establishing rules and limits in a way that is firm yet respectful, maintaining a balance between discipline and understanding.

Encouraging Autonomy: Parents are encouraged to support their child's autonomy and independence. By allowing age-appropriate decision-making and responsibilities, parents foster a sense of competence and self-confidence in their children.

Dealing with Emotions: Parents learn how to help their children navigate and express their emotions in a healthy manner. This includes strategies for managing anger, frustration, and disappointment.

Building a Positive Atmosphere: The overall focus of the workshops is on creating a positive and nurturing environment at home. Parents are equipped with tools to reinforce positive behaviour, strengthen the parent-child bond, and promote a healthy emotional connection.